The One vs. The Many

The One vs. The Many / The One for The Many

By Grant Boatwright, ED Veritas Life Adventures

 

The History:

A man stands alone, really little more than a boy, his nation at his back defeated and dismayed. A giant stands before, the epitome of the word in every way, the pride of His nation that is behind him, just waiting to devour and destroy all the man boy holds dear. The man boy, David, stands; equipped with only a small sling, a stone, and a faith he holds which is all that keeps him standing. David stands, one man, courageous and steadfast, the sling spins, the stone flies, and the giant falls. One man, with one act, inspires and saves a nation.

One woman, compelled by the needs and suffering of the less fortunate in the world, armed only with her compassion, faith, and support of others for the tools of her work, takes it upon herself give of her life completely. She utterly pours out of herself to those who need love and the sheer basics of life. Her generosity, charity, and good works singularly elevate the standard of giving and becomes the benchmark name, that all who feel the tug at their soul to give, have at the tip of their tongue: Mother Theresa.

A culture drives itself towards perfection, and in doing so reduces the value of lives seen as imperfect, encouraging the discarding of its undesirable young to level of “infanticide.” One man, brokenhearted but not broken over this tragedy decides to take in all the “unwanted” that he can. He does so through a ‘drop box’ where those who make the decision to give up their unwanted child can anonymously drop the child off; thus retaining their dignity even through a difficult decision. This pastor, Lee Jong-rak, literally saves multitudes of precious infant lives, who have no power to decide for themselves whether or not they are wanted or what they are worth, by his ‘drop-box’ ministry.

One God gives to humanity His only Son. This Son gathers and trains a few, some skilled some unskilled, some upstanding some despised; men that take His teachings and change the course of human history and its future forever. This Son, Jesus Christ, lived and taught the love of the God who created all life and its’ systems, gave his life to the point of public execution without committing a single crime, and raised again so that all would have a way to know and love the God who sent Him.

 

The result:

Lets face it, our world, our history, our design, and most of our truly inspirational and influential accomplishments are marked by ‘the one’ and not ‘the many’. An entire nation was saved by a harp playing shepherd, thousands were helped and cared for by the compassion of a single nun, multitudes of unwanted babies were saved by one man’s desire to love the unloved, and the way was provided for all of us to have a relationship with our Creator by the sacrificial love of His only Son.

In a world that likes to determine its success by the quantity it affects, provides, and accomplishes it might be prudent to take a step back and look to the quality for a change. It just might be that we find it was the quality of these singular men and woman, or the small group of misfits under Jesus’ tutelage, who decided to make a change around them, which impacted the many. We might realize that it is not just ‘the many’ who can make large transformations. That it could be argued based on the previous and so many other examples, that ‘the one’ or even the few have a far greater, further reaching effect on the communities around them: even the world.

One of the most frequent questions Veritas Life Adventures gets is, “Why do you only take 10 kids a year, shouldn’t you want to affect as many as you can, at least more than 10?” To which my answer is, “Of course we want to affect more, which is why we only take 10.” Because we understand from these past examples, if we gain 10 youth who have a drive and potential to be the leaders of tomorrow and take the in-depth time and effort to equip them with the tools and opportunity to do so; then they will be the names our future generations will read about, aspire to, and learn from on how they impacted humanity.

Do we not desire and see the positive effects of smaller teacher to student ratios in our public schools?

Have you ever been shocked by the change you saw when you were instructed by a personal trainer compared to doing large class workouts?

This is why we know that keeping our goal of training ten Seekers a year in the program will have a far better outcome. That from these ten Seekers, tens of thousands they later lead will be motivated to change and grow, just as they were through the program.

Because they are ‘a’ soul, a potential great soul, created in the image of God, both fearfully and wondrously made. Made for a purpose, be it great or small, yet to be fulfilled.

So you tell me which is greater, ‘the one’ or ‘the many’? …

Or maybe, just maybe, we should start seeing it as ‘the one’ for the flourishing of ‘the many’!

Why Looking Up Will Change Your Life

By David Valentine, co-founder of Rethink and partner/practitioner of the Veritas Lifestyle and Veritas Life Adventures

 

I've got a stress problem. You probably wouldn't know it talking with me. On the surface I am calm, whimsical, and light. It's at the depths of my being anxiety lurks. The place which dictates my mental, emotional, and physical health.

At this point you're probably thinking, "Dude...go workout."

Yes,

absolutely,

I've tried that and it only works in degrees. The entire workout I'm focusing on those situations which are stressful. I exhaust my body, yet my mind continues to churn.

A few months back when my stress level was at an all time peak I took my two dogs for a long run. Like most people I look straight ahead while running outside, because it's the best way not to become a spectacle to passersby.

On this day though I did something absolutely revolutionary

I looked up.

The blue Texas sky reaching from horizon to horizon, the tree branches illuminated by the mid day sun, and the birds which flew by with effortless strokes captured my every thought.

I took a deep breath to remind myself I was alive.

When I looked up to the infinite sky I was reminded of a fundamental truth.

There is more than this.

I am not alone. God is here, and

He

is

good.

There's a verse from Paul's letter to the church in Colossae where he states, "...in Jesus all things hold together."

The cosmos is held together by a God who is good.

My anxiety slowly began to melt away as I marveled at my smallness.

The exercise wasn't relieving my stress, my perspective on life, reality, and truth eased the pressure.

Just then I tripped over my dogs and almost face planted into the concrete. In my attempt to not face plant, I lunged into a pole for a sign reminding patrons of the park to keep their dogs on a leash (you can't make this stuff up). Luckily I held onto the leashes of both dogs. I also avoided anyone seeing me crash, and there was no evidence that I nearly killed myself.

If you happen to be driving through the North Arlington area you may see me running my two dogs looking up towards the sky. Reminding myself, that I am small and God is holding it all together.

Oh and if you see me knocked out next to a sign please assist me.

"Hi. I'm Cassie, and I'm addicted to sugar."

by Cassie Byard
Women's Director at Veritas Life Adventures

  Sometimes when I tell people what I do for a living, I wonder if they mentally look me up and down and think, Seriously? You teach kids holistic health? But... I’ve seen you eat pizza. And didn’t you say you’ve struggled with depression? Also, you have more than 15% body fat. And love handles. And I can see your cellulite through your jeans.

Let me be clear: I’m not saying I think I’m fat. I’m actually quite happy with my body, but I recognize that I may not fit the bill for some people’s idea of a holistic health advocate. I’m not trying to make a point about whether or not I physically look the part (that’s for my next blog :)). What I’m trying to say is that it doesn’t take long to look at me and see that I have not “arrived.”

I am not the perfect model of health. Not because I have love handles and like pizza, but because there’s no such thing as the perfect “model of health.” Health is a not a final destination that can be quantified and then attained, especially if your measuring stick for success is acquiring a specific body type. When I talk about health, I’m talking about treating body, soul, and mind with care and respect. And let’s face it: I do not always make choices that respect my body, soul and mind.

Like the rest of us, I am on a journey. Every day I am faced with choices to respect myself or to stumble and try again tomorrow. Some of these choices are easy for me. I could even say I’m good at making some self-respecting choices consistently. But I also have lots of areas of struggle, and always will, because I am on a journey that doesn’t have a final point of arrival.

This isn’t to say we can’t have goals along the way. Maybe you’re determined to finally run that 5k or that marathon, so you make specific body-challenging choices for a season. Maybe you’re like me and want to break that sugar-happy habit, and certain boundaries and accountabilities need to be established for your body's benefit. Perhaps your stress levels are through the roof and it’s time to prioritize some serious rest and revitalization. Maybe that Netflix account is sucking away life and creativity, and your mouse or remote needs to be decommissioned for a while. Whatever it is you want to accomplish, go for it and be proud in both the process and attainment of your goals! But please don’t think it means the journey is complete.

We do not make this journey in order to “arrive” somewhere, or in order to attain “perfection.” We push on because as we learn to respect and love our bodies, souls and minds, we find ourselves fuller, healthier and better able to love and respect other people, too.  Sometimes it's rough and sometimes it's smooth sailing, but always it is a journey that urges us to move, invites us to keep on keepin' on, and promises reward and fulfilment simply through participation.

I have not arrived, for there is no arrival; the journey is the destination. But it's a worthwhile journey, and I invite you to join me on it!

What is the Veritas Life?

By David Valentine, co-founder of Rethink and partner/practitioner of the Veritas Lifestyle and Veritas Life Adventures

 

What does it look like to live completely in tune with our created nature? We are wired to live a certain type of life. Call it evolution or divine creation, our bodies, minds, and spirits seem to thrive under very specific parameters.

What is the Veritas Life though?

For a simple man, like myself, I find definitions very helpful. Veritas is of course a latin word, and translated veritas means truth. So what is the ‘truth’life, or the truth of life?

Integrated Beings

You are a brilliantly integrated being, made of dust and spirit. You cannot be separated from your body, and you cannot your body from your spirit. It’s common for people to see the various parts of who they are as individual from the other, but the reality is you are an integrated being. If you have emotional baggage that you haven’t worked through, it will manifest itself in your physicality. If you have poor eating habits it will actually affect your emotions.

Central to the Veritas Life is living with the innate awareness that all of you is longing to be healthy. Every part of your being longs to be in sync with it’s creation. Which means we can’t treat our bodies have to be treated like sports cars, and our souls have to be given the right arenas to breathe.

Death, To New Life

If you’ve spent any time with Grant Boatwright you know he lives and breathes Veritas. He’s passionate about seeing everyone everywhere live more full lives. Most people don’t know that he gets up at 3am every Tuesday to work at Starbucks so that Veritas can go where he believes it will. Every Tuesday he dies to himself, so that his wife, friends, family, and Veritas Seekers can live.

Veritas living requires sacrificing some of our time in order to live out what we want to do in the others. It also means living with a keen awareness that what we do affects everyone around us. We don’t just sacrifice for our own good, but for the good of others.

Pursuit Of Truth

There is a beautiful quote from Jesus where he says, “My yoke is easy and my burden is light.”The quote is in reference to his teachings, and the difference they offer compared to the other religious attitudes of his day. There is something truth does to our souls that is unlike anything else. It unlocks deep seated realities that are begging to burst forth from our chests. It’s equally as important to seek truth. Whether it’s in a counselor’s office, amongst friends, or in a religious gathering it’s vital for us to pursue what is true.

The Veritas life is a brilliantly beautiful one. It is a life where all of you is present and integrated. It is a life bent on dying, so that you may truly live. And it is a life built on the pursuit of ultimate reality. When we live in these ways, we discover that we can be more alive than we ever believed possible.

A new Dawn

A Veritas Life Adventures 2015 Outlook By Grant Boatwright, ED Veritas Life Adventures

What is it with our fascination with sagas? Those soul inspiring epic tales that awaken fears, passions, sorrow, and triumph. Those adventures that seem so impossible and unfathomable, to dark to overcome, and just when they are darkest, break, and the light shines through to a glorious new day, victorious, and full of new opportunity. Whether it is Aragorn standing defiant against overwhelming orc hordes with his companions in The Lord of the Rings, Luke taking that epic shot as he exhales deeply in the final moment of the Episode IV of the Star Wars Saga, or even a simple buzzer sounding that ignites a nation after ‘The Miracle’ hockey match in 1980; the fact is buried within. Our souls yearn for something great to be a part of, a story to play a part in, an adventure to be caught in. This yearning, which has spawned so many a great story, must originate from somewhere or someone. It is that greatest of stories, which began in paradise, in communion with the Creator of all things, a fall from His design, a long history trying to recover it, a sacrifice by His Son for us all, and this Son, Jesus, taking us all out of the darkness and shedding a light on the journey back, is the one resonating and calling to us still.

We, at Veritas Life Adventures, believe wholeheartedly in the reality of this yearning, the need to discover what it means, Who is whispering it to us, and how it plays out in our everyday lives. However, like all great stories, it must grow, struggle, and change because only through change will we improve and see the new dawn that is coming.

 

Reaping the harvest and planting the new seed

The start of 2015 finds Veritas Life Adventures wrapping up its last semester with a group of young Seekers, now seasoned, that are the culmination of our program initiation that began in the spring of 2012. One has been with us since the beginning, Conner Jansen, the others (Jathan Gupton, Erik Lavespere, and Tereza Bacca) have joined us along the way; but all are seniors in high school this year, ready to finish strong with the choice they made to journey along side us, and find a path that will continue seeking the truth in all aspects of their lives.

This presented us with a dilemma; if we start the program in January, what happens to the seekers who graduate in May and go off to their next stage of life, be it college or other, and still have half a year to go in the program? What about future Seekers who will be seniors in their high school careers?

That is why we are growing and changing to better serve our Seekers, and their resolution to be a part of this program, by finishing up with our current group of Seekers in July 2015 and starting all future years of the Veritas Life Adventures program on September 1, to go along with the school calendar.

We feel this will give both the current Seekers the best chance at finishing the program in the strongest fashion, honing and applying those skills they have learned thus far, while giving prospective Seekers for the new Veritas program starting in September a chance to fully commit, see how the program works, and begin and end with the other stages of life they are currently in. Therefore, go, find out more about the program, see what we are currently doing, and decide to seek that which is worth the struggle finding.

 

Their sagas continues, growing and strong

I confess I am writing this with a slight agenda… I want to boast a bit in the changes and triumphs I have seen Christ accomplishing in the lives of our seekers, encourage them in the work yet unfinished through them, and invite those new young Seekers (or parents of them) to make the choice to see if they ready for an adventure such as this.

All the Seekers who have come through the program, those still in and those who have left, have been transformed by Christ in some way; whether they want to admit it or not. Seeds for future success and a full life have been sown. But for these four (interesting that is how many went on our first trip to Red River in 2012), truly epic stories and accomplishments have been seen and are still being formed. While most of their stories are similar in their infancy with Veritas, as I will tell using Conner, and each has too numerous achievements to expound upon here, I would like to give you some highlights and share how they plan to take it to the next level.

Conner, an original 2012 Veritas Seeker, began an apathetic typical teenage gamer and who, like so many others, had multitudes of gifts, dreams, and passions just waiting to be awakened. Now he stands, a beast of a young man, poised to go to UTD to pursue a long time, but now fully enlivened, passion for audiology (as he is an award winning signer). He was a regional finalist for the Posse scholarship in Houston, a leader and active member in his church, Parkway United Methodist, and an active participant in the Insanity: Max30 program, along with Shakeology user, to help maintain a healthy physical lifestyle (literally see his physical transformation in our albums on Facebook).

Jathan, who has taken his talents in music to encourage those as a worship leader at Parkway and started workout sessions on his own with those in his community BEFORE SCHOOL…as a teenager!

Erik, who conceptualized, started, and seen manifest his own Ultimate Frisbee Club at his high school who just recently had their first inter school match with another local high school.

And dear Tessa, who in just her first year, has struggled and overcome so many personal trials (summiting Wheeler Peak on an injured hip and ankle), and pushing through strong spiritual questions to find Christ waiting with open arms, accepting Him, and ready to see what the next adventures bring.

And this year all four will be coming together to put on their own Veritas Intensives, where they will find, bring, and share with new prospective Seekers all they have learned in the program thus far. They will be planning the two day intensive all themselves: the nutritional meal made together, the workouts, the program/service project, and the journal topics discussed; so stay tuned, with much anticipation, to see what comes next.